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Is Your Body Image Preventing Weight Loss Success?

Is your body image preventing weight loss success? If you loved your body image today, could you be more successful in your weight loss and healthy lifestyle goals? Is your body image the root of emotional and binge eating you are struggling with? Studies say yes, and here’s what you can do about it.

Our self-image has a direct reflection of how we take care of ourselves, and in turn, the choices we make for our body reflects heavily on our self-image.

woman looking into mirror with negative body image preventing weight loss


After my husband passed away, while I was going through the mourning process, I was depressed and did not care about myself. I was overweight and gaining more weight without caring. Nothing about myself mattered to me until I stumbled on a reason to be excited about life again. That reason helped me realize the importance of loving myself and being grateful for the body I had. Those feelings prompted me to treat myself better, live a healthy life and regain my positive attitude.

If you are going through something that has you emotionally withdrawn from yourself, I hope these tips will help you pull out of it. Put a stop to your body image preventing weight loss success by learning to love your body image today, no matter what and it will create a better tomorrow.

Consider Your Self Talk

How well do you treat yourself? Would you speak to your family member the way you speak to yourself? Negative thoughts to yourself can trigger a response of emotional eating as well as low motivation to make healthy choices.

To change your negative self-talk habits, try posting positive affirmations around the house. Here are some examples:

I enjoy exercising every day.
I am choosing to live a healthier life.
I deserve to be healthy and feel better.
I love how I feel when I make healthy choices.
I am beautiful.
I am worth it.
I am making progress with every decision.

Appreciate Your Body Today

I love the motto, “it could be worst”. It can always be worse than it is. Love your body today for what it can do, for how it looks and for what it provides. I spent a lot of time in my 30s not loving my body and certainly not taking advantage of what could have done. Now that I am in my 40s, I try to carpe diem, seize the day for what I can do. I have a bad back and that prevents some activities, but rather than focus on that, I try to do everything else I can, while I can.

Make a List of Things You Like About Yourself

Hang a list of what you like about yourself up right beside the affirmations! You have some really awesome qualities you shouldn’t be overlooking. You are amazing! Go ahead, start that long list of wonderfuls!

Beauty is NOT Skin Deep

Beauty is so much more than what you see when you look in the mirror. Your body is a vessel for your beautiful self to reside in and what you have inside reflects through your body. Allow your light to shine bright to help others around you as well as your own body self-image!

Rather than measuring success by how you look, measure how you FEEL. Let’s face it, our body is aging and constantly changing. We can’t stop all aging, but by making healthy choices we will be the best we can be!

Surround Yourself with Positive People

Misery loves company and so if you have negative people around you, they will pull you down with them. My favorite thing to do is laugh! Laughing creates positive thoughts, changes negatives into a positive so bad days won’t pull you down so much. Work on seeing the glass half full instead of half empty and enjoy life to the fullest!

Comfortable Clothes You Love

Choose clothes you feel comfortable in rather than forcing yourself to wear what doesn’t suit you just because it’s in style. I am the worst when it comes to keeping up with fashion. Thankfully, my adult daughter helps me from time to time, but I don’t like shopping and therefore that alone keeps me from staying up to date with styles. Comfort and sensibility are what I enjoy wearing. Most of the time I am in workout clothes or riding clothes!

Activities You Enjoy for Exercise

There are loads of different types of ways to exercise. So many styles and methods. While I am a huge advocate for strength training to boost metabolism for women over 40, I know there are so many other ways to tone muscles and lose weight with cardio. Experiment and find something you really enjoy so you don’t have to dread it.

Don’t Compare Your Body Image with Someone Else

In the age of social media, it has become easier for people to compare their self and lives to others. Social media allows us to only share what we deem good enough, and this can cause a misleading representation of other people’s lives. Body positivity, especially in women, can be hard to achieve in this current landscape.

However, with new strides and working together as women, body positivity can be achievable. Having positive fitness goals and making healthier decisions can not only improve your overall physical health but can also have a positive impact on your mental health.

If you are bettering yourself to make you feel better and not for anyone else, you will more than likely begin to feel more confident with who you are. Pure Barre has created an infographic to further dive into the numbers of body positivity and fitness in women as well as tips.

infographic reasons women diet and how to feel better about yourself through positive self image


Don’t be your own roadblock to feeling better by living a healthy lifestyle! You are a beautiful, amazing woman! Implement these tips to put a stop today to your body image preventing weight loss success for you.

How is your body image preventing weight loss success in your daily life habits? Did I leave out a tip you feel would help others? Please share in the comments.

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